My Reflections on Making Change Happen
Make a ‘Top 3 rules for doing x’ list.
It’s a simple activity, and can be done individually or as a group after the end of a project, month, year or decade. Find a theme, and then design the ‘Top 3 rules’ that you would heavily recommend someone else abide to if they’re looking to do the same.

So to get you thinking, here’s a few of mine…
The Top 3 Rules For Ensuring Your Project Pays Off
- Spend more time than you expect to on defining your project WHY.
- Know what success means in real terms and don’t try to count or measure fake things.
- Actively and regularly monitor your project’s operating context & early metrics.
The Top 3 Rules For Leading Change
- Prioritise clarity and value above all else.
- Listen to those that have been through this type of change before, especially if they’re your direct reports.
- Your project teams are also your change salesforce – gear them up and protect them accordingly.
The Top 3 Rules For Right-Sizing Project Governance
- Don’t delay decisions, and ensure out-of-session decision making is easy.
- Never have anyone there just ‘for information only’. Everyone has to have a role and a stake in it.
- Have a set agenda and a firm time limit. Use a meeting cost calculator if you need to. (There are ones that actively and visibly accrue in cost as the meeting drags on).
Top 3 Rules For Embedding Agility:
- Decrease the gap between decider & do-er.
- Have clear priorities for the team at all times.
- Give your team what they need to get the work done, then let them do so.
Top 3 Rules For Supporting Change (e.g. PMOs):
- Serve, don’t police.
- Non-compliance is usually because your processes suck and have no value for those doing them.
- If in doubt, pick up the phone.
Top 3 Rules For Getting Something Done:
- Make time for it.
- No seriously, make time for it.
- Ask for help (or hire it) if you’re trying and it’s still not happening.
And a couple bonuses:
Top 3 Rules For Creating A Change Project That Fails:
- Create money-pits by outsourcing entire project functions to a large accounting firm.
- Communicate to a broad range of staff via email blasts and in vague, pretty pictures.
- Ask people to deliver the project on top of their ‘day-jobs’.
4 Useful Life & Career Reflections:
- Listen more than you talk – especially if you have value to add.
- Learn the basics of selling, even if you’re not in sales.
- Everyone is making it up. That’s not being an imposter – it’s using judgement.
- Your body can often be used to overcome your emotional state.
Feeling weak and downtrodden? → Lift something heavy.
Feeling tired? → Go for a walk in the cool breeze.